Resistance is nothing but fear...

It’s been a while since my last blog, and I have undergone many inner transformations. Releasing negative thinking and behavioral issues surrounding my relationships with others in all forms. When I become aware of my inner issues and accept myself in every aspect, that leads to healing and growth, generally for me, when I began to heal and grow, by stepping more into my wholeness, self-love, and overall self-empowerment, that's when changes started to manifest in my outer world. Usually, resistance to these changes comes as well.

Overall resistance is nothing but fear. Resistance comes from the fear of not knowing what’s next, the unknown. Fear of having to let something go, whether it’s a person, place, thing, belief, or way of being, and not knowing or being able to see at that moment what the benefits of letting go will be. Resistance can also come about when it is time to surrender. For me, I resist because even though I'm ready for change on a spiritual level, physically if I’m stuck in my comfort zone, then naturally change will make me uncomfortable, which causes resistance.

When I understood that resistance is from the Ego and of a lower vibration, I began to learn how to overcome those lower aspects of myself. I started to embrace change and go with the flow of the Universe working in my life. I’ve noticed when resistance is present within me, I feel stuck and unhappy about my life. I started playing the victim role and began thinking negative thoughts about myself and looking to the external world to help me cope with these negative thoughts and emotions. What I had to understand is that I create my life with my thoughts and actions, and in those moments of life where I feel unhappy and stuck, instead of playing the victim, I can choose to make a change. When I can embrace change and choose to have a positive approach towards changing situations in my life, I begin to feel back at peace and aligned with the flow of life once again.

Throughout my awakening journey, I’ve realized that every change that has happened thus far in my life has benefited my soul's growth and way of being. When I choose to resist these types of changes, not only does it delay my growth, cause me to feel stuck in life, and block my happiness. In every area of life, I have choices. When it comes to making a change, I can either choose to embrace the change and see it from a positive perspective as a change that is happening for my highest good, or I can choose to be afraid and resist the change and cause myself to not only stay in my comfort zone but to suffer from feeling stressed and unhappy in my life. Life has constant changes, but to flow with these changes and embrace the progress and growth of this life journey, I must change my thinking and find my inner strength and courage to overcome fear and not resist. I like to remind myself that everything is well and has a purpose. There is no need to worry because everything unfolds for the highest good. By becoming aware when I resist change, I can find my inner strength to overcome and not delay moving forward in my soul's growth and life mission.

5/7/17